๐Ÿคท Is It Too Lateโ“ ื”ืื ื–ื” ืœื ืžืื•ื—ืจ ืžื“ื™

English follows the Hebrew

ืœืคื ื™ 10 ื™ืžื™ื.

ืœืคื ื™ 10 ื™ืžื™ื ื™ืฉื‘ืชื™ ื‘ื‘ื™ืช ื•ื”ืชืคืœืœืชื™. ืฆืžืชื™. ื—ื–ืจืชื™ ื‘ืชืฉื•ื‘ื”.

ื—ืฉื‘ืชื™ ืขืœ ื“ื‘ืจื™ื ืฉืขืฉื™ืชื™ ืœื ื‘ืกื“ืจ. ื—ื˜ืื™ื.

ื—ื˜ืื™ื ื‘ื™ื ื™ ื•ื‘ื™ืŸ ื‘ื•ืจืื™, ื—ื˜ืื™ื ื‘ื™ื ื™ ื•ื‘ื™ืŸ ืื ืฉื™ื ืื—ืจื™ื ื•ื—ื˜ืื™ื ื‘ื™ื ื™ ื•ื‘ื™ืŸ ืขืฆืžื™.

ื”ืชื—ืจื˜ืชื™. ื”ืฆื˜ืขืจืชื™ ื•ืงื™ื‘ืœืชื™ ืงื‘ืœื•ืช ื˜ื•ื‘ื•ืช ืœืขืชื™ื“.

ื‘ืขื™ืงืจ ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ื™ื•ืชืจ ื˜ื•ื‘ื”.

ื•ืžื” ืงืจื” ืžืื–?

ืขื–ืจืชื™ ื‘ื‘ื ื™ื™ืช ื”ืกื•ื›ื”.

ืงื™ืฉื˜ืชื™. ืกื™ื“ืจืชื™. ืงื ื™ืชื™. ื‘ื™ืฉืœืชื™...ืœื ืœื”ืจื‘ื” ืื ืฉื™ื, ืื‘ืœ ืื ื™ ื”ืฉืชื“ืœืชื™ ืฉื™ื”ื™ื” ื›ืžื” ืฉื™ื•ืชืจ ื™ืคื” ื•ื—ื’ื™ื’ื™.

ื’ื ืืจื’ื ืชื™ ืคืจื•ื™ื™ืงื˜ ื‘ื™ื ืœืื•ืžื™ ื’ื“ื•ืœ, ื™ื•ื ื”ื•ืœื“ืช ื‘ื–ื•ื.

ื‘ืงื™ืฆื•ืจ, ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ืขืกื•ืงื”, ื•ืœื ื”ื’ืขืชื™ ืœื›ืœ ื”ืชื›ื ื™ื•ืช ืœืฉื™ื ื•ื™ ืฉื”ื™ื• ืœื™ ืœืคื ื™ 10 ื™ืžื™ื.

ื”ื™ื• ืœื™ ื›ื•ื•ื ื•ืช ื˜ื•ื‘ื•ืช, ืื‘ืœ ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ืขืกื•ืงื” ื•ื”ื™ื• ืœื—ืฆื™ื.

ืžื” ืื ื™ ืืขืฉื”?

ื›ื›ื” ื›ื–ื”.


ืื‘ืœ ื™ื›ื•ืœ ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืฉื‘ืขื•ื“ 11 ื—ื•ื“ืฉ ื•20 ื™ืžื™ื ืื”ื™ื” ื‘ืื•ืชื• ืžืงื•ื ืฉื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ืœืคื ื™ 10 ื™ืžื™ื, ืื ืœื ื’ืจื•ืข ืžื–ื”.

ืงืฉื” ืœื™ ืœืงื—ืช ืืช ื”ื–ืžืŸ ืœืขืฆืžื™.

ืงืฉื” ืœื™ ืœืฉืœื ืœืขืฆืžื™.

ืงืฉื” ืœื™ ืœื”ืชื—ื™ื™ื‘ ื”ืฉื ื”. ืžื™ ื™ื•ื“ืข ืžื” ื™ื”ื™ื”? ืžื™ ื™ื•ื“ืข ืžื” ืงื•ืจื”?

ืื– ืœื›ื•ืœื ืื ื™ ื“ื•ืื’ืช, ื—ื•ืฅ ืžืœืขืฆืžื™.


ืื ื™ ื™ื•ื“ืขืช ืืช ื”ืคืชื’ื, ืฉืื ืจื•ืฆื™ื ืฉื•ื ื”, ืฆืจื™ืš ืœืขืฉื•ืช ืฉื•ื ื”โ€ฆ.ืื‘ืœโ€ฆ.


ืื‘ืœ - ื–ื” ืจืง 10 ื™ืžื™ื. ื–ื” ืœื ืžืื•ื—ืจ ืžื™ื“ื™. ืื ื™ ื™ื›ื•ืœื” ืขื“ื™ื™ืŸ ืœื“ืื•ื’ ืœืขืฆืžื™ ืฉืœื ืืชื—ืจื˜ ื‘ื™ื•ื ื›ื™ืคื•ืจ ื”ื‘ื.


ืื ืืช ืจื•ืฆื” ืœืขืฉื•ืช ืžืฉื”ื• ื˜ื•ื‘ ืœืขืฆืžืš, ืœืฉืคืจ ืืช ื”ืงืฉืจื™ื ืฉืœืš ืขื ืขืฆืžืš ื•ืขื ื”ืžืขื’ืœื™ื ื”ื›ื™ ืงืจื•ื‘ื™ื, ืื ื™ ืžื–ืžื™ื ื” ืื•ืชืš ืœืฉืžื•ืข ืขื•ื“ ืขืœ ืกื“ื ืช ื”ื›ืœื™ ื”ืฉื‘ื•ืขื™ .


ื•ื’ื ืื ื–ื” ืžืฉื”ื• ืื—ืจ - ืงื—ื™ 10. 10 ื“ืงื•ืช, 10 ืฉืขื•ืช - ืงื—ื™ 10 ืœื‘ื—ื•ืจ ืœืขืฆืžืš ืžืฉื”ื• ืฉื™ืงื“ื ืื•ืชืš ื”ืฉื ื”.


ืืช ืœื ืจื•ืฆื” ืœื”ืฆื˜ืขืจ ืฉื•ื‘ ื‘ืฉื ื” ื”ื‘ืื”.

ื—ื’ ืฉืžื— ื•ืฉื‘ืช ืฉืœื•ื

ื—ื ื™

As I'm writing this it's been 10 days since Yom Kippur. Ten days since I repented for my sins. Ten days since I thought about how I want this New Year to look like. Ten days since I said, โ€œThis year I want to be betterโ€. Ten days since I said, I want the year to be more serene than last year. So ten days have passed and what have I done? Have I changed? Have I made steps to get out of old habits? Have I made a list of what exactly I want to do, and started on it? Actually not. Iโ€™ve been too busy! First getting ready for Sukkot. Building, decorating, shopping (online), cooking, working. Busy time. Not much time for me... And then a big international family project - organizing a Zoom birthday party. Too busy to think of myself. Too busy to take care of myself. Too busy to think back to where I was 10 days ago. If I donโ€™t stop, if I donโ€™t think of myself, thereโ€™s a pretty good chance that in another 11 months and 20 days I will look back and say to myself that another year went by and Iโ€™m sorry for the same things, Iโ€™m repenting for the same sins. Still asking, what about me? Itโ€™s hard for me to prioritize time for myself. I want to better myself, but year after year, everyone else comes first. I want to learn new relationships skills so that Iโ€™ll yell less. I want to hear some lectures about (grand)parenting. I want to learn new tools for more patience and tolerance. But for some reason, Iโ€™ve been putting othersโ€™ needs before my own. But if I donโ€™t start putting my needs first, Iโ€™ll be in the same place next year. Possibly better, most likely the same or worse. Itโ€™s not too late. Itโ€™s only 10 days, and I have been busy. But thereโ€™s time. The yearโ€™s not over. All is not lost. I can still do something for myself this year. Despite Covid, despite lockdowns, despite the fact that life is not the same, that life is hectic, and uncertain. One thing for sure, if I donโ€™t do something different, Iโ€™ll be in the same place next year. So take 10 - if not 10 days, 10 minutes, 10 hours - take 10 and think what you ARE going to do for yourself. If one of your priorities is learning tools that help you feel good about yourself and get along better with those closest to you, I invite you to check out my new workshop here. And if not, if you have something else on your bucket list - go for it. Take ten and take the first step. Itโ€™s not too late. Itโ€™s never too late. Chag Sameach and Shabbat Shalom Chani

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